
OUR MISSION
We elevate the voices of Neurodivergent people to help them flourish and thrive


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We are against the use of Positive Behaviour Support and Applied Behaviour Analysis for Neurodivergent people and people with a learning disability. We believe better, more compassionate approaches exist.

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Jill is one of those rare people who manages to combine wisdom, compassion and experience. She has a knack for speaking truth whilst sharing ideas and solutions at the same time. Put simply, Jill makes things better. If you ever get the chance to work with Jill, take it!
— Kate Mercer, Black Belt Advocacy
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Working with this team has transformed how we think about sensory needs. Hearing about sensory and communication needs directly from people who experience and understand it has altered how we work with the young people in our service.
— CAMHS Inpatient Mental Health Team
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One of the best training sessions I’ve attended. Thank you so much.
— Attendee of “Introduction to Autism” Online Training
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The resources created by this team are brilliant. They’re really useful and should be applied in schools as well as hospitals.
— Children’s Occupational Therapist
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Jill stands out for her methodical approach, as well as for her passion and depth of knowledge around things that impact the lives of neurodivergent people. She is dedicated to ensuring that those with lived experience are valued experts. This is at the centre of the work she undertakes.
— Nikki Henderson, Senior Adviser Building the Right Support, LGA
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Jill ensures that true co-production is at the heart of all projects and brings a unique energy to everything she does. Jill is innovative and never dogmatic, turns ‘problems’ into opportunities, and you can trust that what is agreed will be delivered.
— Tom McGhie, Care and Treatment Review Programme Manager
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I just wanted to let you know how impactful your report and your words in today’s meeting were. The work you are doing is giving a voice to autistic people who aren’t able to articulate their needs and it’s brilliant to see. I hope our paths cross again!
—Josie Saville, Co-CEO, Lets for Life
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OUR MISSION
We are here to support change that enables Autistic people to flourish.
We are here to elevate Autistic and other Neurodivergent voices. Our work is focused on sharing solutions, helping others understand, and promoting different ways of working.
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Training Curriculum
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Neurodivergent Wellbeing Approach
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Development Support

OUR WORK
We believe that Autism is a difference, not a disorder.
There’s a lack of understanding about the challenges that Autistic people face, and what needs to be done differently to ensure they can thrive. Our work aims to change that.
NdC Journal
In today’s blog, Molly Anderton, a Lived Experience Advisor at NdC, shares her experience of defining and holding boundaries within her role and how this enables her to share her passion and sense of purpose whilst protecting her own wellbeing.
Kay Louise Aldred, NdC’s Development Lead, shares her experience of defining boundaries and explores the need that inspired us to develop our Neurodivergent-affirming guide and training workshop on ‘Understanding Boundaries’.
In this blog, our Guest Contributor, shares a fascinating insight into their lived experience of being Autistic and working as a Researcher who studies Autism.
In this blog, Kay Louise Aldred, NdC’s Development Lead, shares an insight into core elements of our Neurodivergent Wellbeing Approach training and explores why nervous system regulation and trauma-informed approaches are essential to creating Neurodivergent-affirming organisations.
In this month’s research roundup, Ann Memmott explores a wide range of new studies on Autism and ADHD, with a particular focus on gendered experiences—highlighting research on parenting, menstruation, menopause, friendships, employment inclusion, and critical reflections on diagnostic and treatment approaches.
Guest contributor, Remie Colledge, shares a call to action to services, employers, educators and allies everywhere: what changes could you make to help lift the invisible load carried by Neurodivergent people, navigating a world that isn’t designed for Neurodivergent minds?
Today on the blog, Dr Catherine Crompton shares a unique insight into some of her team’s recent research on ‘information transfer within and between Autistic and non-Autistic people’. The results may surprise you!
In this blog, Emily Wooden, shares her experience of navigating the education system as an Autistic girl, and the subsequent impact of reaching Autistic burnout.

OUR VISION
We want to create positive change in society, not just in hospitals.
We recognise that opportunities for creation, connection, fulfilment and purpose help Neurodivergent people live happy, healthy and meaningful lives in the wider community.
Resource library
Jonkman et al., 2025
This study explored experiences with Applied Behaviour Analysis (ABA) in the Netherlands, finding mixed views among Autistic adults, parents, and professionals. While some reported benefits like improved communication, others, especially Autistic adults, expressed concerns about trauma and ethical issues. The study highlights the need for better training, ethical standards, and inclusion of Autistic perspectives to improve ABA practices.
Disclaimer: discussed ABA and experiences of trauma and harm.
M Doherty
This thesis presents the first series of publications by openly autistic medical doctors, exploring their experiences to improve healthcare outcomes for autistic people and advocating for greater recognition of neurodiversity in medicine. It introduces the Autistic SPACE framework as a practical educational tool to address barriers in healthcare and promote accessibility for both autistic patients and providers.
Moseley, R. L., Druce, T., & Turner‐Cobb, J. M.
This qualitative study explored the menopause experiences of 17 autistic individuals, revealing that many faced significant challenges in daily functioning, mental health, and social engagement during this transition. Participants often had low awareness of menopause and limited confidence in healthcare support, with some reporting that autism made the experience more difficult. The findings highlight a critical need for better recognition and tailored support for autistic people during menopause.
Gibbs et al., 2025
This study examined how educators in autism-specific schools in Australia learned about and implemented trauma-informed education. After a short training, staff showed better understanding and more positive attitudes toward supporting trauma-impacted Autistic students, though teacher well-being stayed the same. Teachers valued the training but noted some challenges, especially with limited resources and supporting students with intellectual disabilities.
Heyworth et al., 2025
This study explored what both Autistic and non-Autistic parents value about raising Autistic children. Parents described their experiences as complex but often joyful, highlighting love for their child’s unique personality, the fulfilment they felt in their role, and the importance of acceptance and connection. The findings challenge negative stereotypes and suggest that parenting Autistic children can be deeply rewarding.
Flower et al., 2025
This study aimed to define what “neurodiversity affirming” psychology practice means for supporting Autistic adults in Australia. Using expert input from both Autistic adults and psychologists, researchers identified seven key principles of affirming care, including ongoing learning, individualised communication, and genuine acceptance of autism. These findings offer a practical guide for therapists and empower Autistic adults to seek or advocate for respectful, tailored mental health support.
Wm-adass.org.uk, 2024
The Autism and Parental Blame research project investigates how parents of autistic children experience blame when seeking support from health, education, and care services. Led by West Midlands ADASS and the University of Birmingham, and commissioned by NHS England, the project collaborates with families to identify key concerns and develop recommendations to improve how services respond to and support these families.
van Grunsven and Roeser (2021)
This paper explores how Augmentative and Alternative Communication (AAC) technology can help shift perceptions of non-speaking autistic people, recognising them as individuals with rich inner lives. While AAC Tech can support more empathetic understanding, it may also hinder authentic communication if not designed thoughtfully. The authors suggest incorporating ideas from emotional design and embodied cognition, using behaviours like stimming as meaningful forms of expression to enhance empathy and communication.
Delivered by El Dewar
Content Warning: Abuse, Child Abuse, Applied Behavioural Analysis, Electro-Shock Therapy, Dehumanisation of Autistic People, Gay Conversion Therapy, Physical Abuse, Grooming, and Coercive Control
This webinar explores the relationship between coercive control and ABA, through examining ABA’s history and current day positionality. The presentation explores issues surrounding common beliefs on ABA for Autistic people and the desire for, and damaged caused by, neuronormalisation. The latter part of the presentation focuses on the implications of compliance and control in ABA in the wider social and adult lives of Autistic people. Concluding with support methods to replace ABA, this webinar offers a Neurodivergent-affirming lens to the issues surrounding ABA outcomes and techniques with regards to coercive control.
Disclaimer
At Neurodiverse Connection, we are committed to promoting the use of neurodivergent affirming language. However, please do note that in these webinars, as with any content that Neurodiverse Connection host or share that includes input from other organisations or parties, we cannot guarantee that the preferred neurodivergent affirming terminology is always used.
Our guide to neurodivergent affirming language is available here:
Warda Farah (2023)
Early Years Educational Professionals need to be aware of the intersecting identities of the children they work with and their different needs and experiences. In this guide, the author explores what it means to approach teaching through an intersectional lens. The guide also provides a practical approach to integrating intersectional practices into a classroom or wider school environment. The author stresses that with greater understand of students’ lives and lived experience, the greater opportunity for collaboration between teachers and pupils. This work takes a positive, empathetic and inclusive stance to intersectionality in Early Years Education.
Pellicano, Fatima, Hall, Heyworth, Lawson, Lilley, Mahony and Stears (2022)
Most research on autistic adulthood focuses narrowly on deficits and standard life outcomes, overlooking what truly matters to autistic people. This review applies Martha Nussbaum’s capabilities approach to highlight the broader social and systemic factors that shape autistic adults' quality of life. It calls for more inclusive, participatory research and support systems that empower autistic individuals to thrive on their own terms.
Disclaimer: brief reference without details to sexual violence, self-harm and suicide.
Milton (2018)
Written by Dr. Damian Milton, originator of the Double Empathy Problem, this report critically examines the widespread use of Applied Behaviour Analysis (ABA) and Positive Behavioural Support (PBS). It highlights key criticisms of these approaches, particularly their lack of alignment with the values and lived experiences of neurodivergent communities. The report concludes with recommendations for shifting toward more neurodivergent-affirming practices that prioritise respect, autonomy, and genuine understanding over behaviour control.
Disclaimer: discusses ABA and PBS.
Guest contributor, Molly Siobhan Parker, an actor and writer, shares how her experiences of being a late-diagnosed Autistic woman inspired her to write her short, comedy film script.